William is the love of my life, my best friend, my soul mate! Where do I start? There is so much to say about this wonderful man. I met William back in May of 2009, sometime after returning from England. I had returned from England, to take care of some personal matters, and during that time, I was bored. I wasn’t working, as I planned to return to England, so I saw no point. I stumbled across a social network website, and there I thought I’d kill some time. Not knowing that the moment I signed up to that website, that my life would change forever. I met a wonderful, flirty, but yet funny, lovely man, I had no idea, I would be spending the rest of my life with. The coincidental thing too is, he too killed time by using the same website, was this fate? Possibly, but I don’t complain.
Two years later, here in Massachusetts, I am living with this wonderful man, we are so happy, we have so much in common. Growing up, I had 3 brothers, so there were a few things forced on me, like Science fiction TV shows, I grew to hate, Football, I grew to hate, but when I got older, I learned to let go of the hate that I had for being forced to watch what they wanted. I guess in some ways it was a good thing, because, I knew a lot more than most girls did about sports, as for science fiction stuff, well over time girls got into it as much as guys did. Those were two passions that I grew to love with William. He’s a big gamer as well, and I do indulge now and then. But I get the pleasure of surprising him now and then with a new game. It’s like I can imagine him as a kid. So when he’s playing on his ps4, I’m upstairs dabbling around with my websites.
It’s really just so perfect, and you know, I never thought I could say that about a guy, I was with. It really is so perfect, as perfect as can be for me. He makes me immensely happy. There is not one day, that we don’t joke around, that he doesn’t make me laugh. In my whole life, I have never laughed so much, felt so much love from a man. I am truly blessed. Never does a day go by, that he doesn’t kiss me goodbye before leaving for work. I don’t mind either, I tell him, I want you to wake me, I want to be that first person he sees every day and I see every day. There are no words to express how deeply in love I am with this lovely specimen of a man. He is my prince charming.
I am adding another section to this area. Yesterday November 9, 2018, over dinner the “Marriage” word came into the conversation and before I knew it, we were setting a date! Below are my thoughts I posted on Instagram last night.
I have been waiting all my life to find my soulmate. I finally have. 8 years ago I met him and we fell in love, 5 years ago he proposed to me, but we didn’t want to set a date yet, we were fine with things the way they have been. Tonight over dinner, the marriage subject popped up. And before I knew it we were setting a date ? I will be honest, I feel as if I am in a dream. I feel nervous already. The date we chose is May 16, 2019. We decided in the spring! For those of you who thought we were married, nope we have been living in sin. That is all going to change. I am passed the whole big wedding thing, that was a younger me dream. Now I just want to be his wife. Wow! That sounded weird lol. Omgosh I am excited, it just happened. I so wish my mom was around. Sadly my family is in California and more than likely won’t be able to come, we are considering eloping lol. Does that count if I say it? Lol.
And so the date is set. I will update again later down the line in the event anything changes.
I meant to return sooner, today is October 10, 2020. We got married on May 30, 2019. More like eloped we didn’t tell anyone besides Williams mother, so that she could be there. We celebrated out first anniversary this May, obviously lol.
I had many visions’ of what my wedding would be like. However, because of my age those visions’ changed. I, like many other women envision white dress, church and all. Ours was sweet, quite and very very small. I think about it, and should have had it in our living room, but it is what it is now. I am happy with him, and I believe he is happy too.
It’s crazy how time just flies by, and indeed it did for us. Before I knew it, it was 10 years later, and talking about marriage.
Are we having children? No, I am past that time in my life, my husband is fine with that. We have 2 beautiful cats that are our family, and 2 more outside that we would like to make part of the inside family.
We are living a happy married life.