My gosh, I can’t believe how Al can be sometimes, she can be the sweetest person in the world, and then just become a royal bitch other times. I get some gorgeous flowers from her today, that made me so happy, with a note apologizing for being hurtful. First thing I do is call her in the A.M. no answer, surprised because it is her day off, but thought she would be up and around by then. Well I was unable to leave her a message, for whatever reason the mobile didn’t give me any options, vbut to hang up. So I waited all day, to see if she would even bother to see that I called, it would of said that she had a missed call. In all the time I’ve known Alice, she has practically jumped, when that damn mobile rings, well she said she was still sleeping, but I don’t know if thats true. Ok so 7pm comes around no word from here, so I decide to call, the mobile rings and rings, like it did in the morning, again no option to leave a message. So I try her other mobile, and after a few rings, she answers and says I’ll call you back I’m in the car, so I think Ok, she might pull over to call, but instead she called when she got home, which is fine with me. We discussed the flowers and then I talked to her about me calling the mobile, and she didn’t answer, she claims she knew it was me but thought I could wait. But she did answer her main mobile, and well we talked when she got home.
While talking we were discussed the fact I don’t really drink coffee or tea, until I met her, I did back in Amercia, but on rare occasions, then she brought up a subject that drinking tea or coffe with sugar is fattening, then I brought up a past event, not so past it was when we went camping, I didn’t take any tea, because we had discussed it before, and I thought, na I won’t bother, she had a fit because I didn’t bring any, and at the time I told her we talked about not using sugar anymore. Ok so we are back to the phone call, I briefly brought up the fact that we had already discussed that even prior to going camping, and that I was thinking ahead, so I said, no Alice, I didn’t bring it on purpose, so she was so fixed on the idea that I forgot it. So that itself there was beginning to start an arguement, which I wanted to avoid, but then she sasy, did you not like me sending you flowers, then I’m like WTF? What does flowers have to do with talking about tea/coffe with sugar, ok, so it just started to get bad there and I wanted it to end, before it got any worse. So I said Alice it’s not big deal, if you want to think I forgot it then go ahead, then she says, so why did you lie about not taking sugar on purpose, I thought to myself OMFG!!! she is not doing this. So I won’t even go into what else happened, but now I am pissed off, and I hung up on her, even though she HATES that but I didn’t want to continue talking to her, she got to the point of saying, aren’t you happy? Do you want to go backto America, I couldn’t take it anymore, I raised my voice loudly like yelling and said stop it right now!!! STOP IT!! then she goes on to say oh my god, you are doing it again. You ruined today.
I am so mad at her right now, she was pushing me and pushing me, does anyone else see it? Or am I going fucken nuts? I’ll probably call her back, and I hope to God she has calmed down. I will apologize for raising my voice and a few bad words I said, but she needs to do the same, she blames me all the time. I can’t stand that. Grrrr!! How can it go from something so beautiful to something so ugly I don’t know what to do anymore with her, I’m at my wits ends. I think we are both pmsing, lol. I hope she don’t start, but if I know her good, she will. But I just want her to know, that I don’t like starting fights over petty shit, like tea/coffe with sugar, for goodness sakes, Lmao, I’m embarrassed even writing about this.
Heh, don’t feel bad about getting into a fight over tea. Mike and I got info a fight over ground beef before, and it turned into this shouting match, then the silent treatment, lmao. I think everyone has petty fights, but the important thing is the making up and apologizing, which I hope she’ll give you, and not just you to her. Other than that, I hope things are going well for you.