Let me start by saying these are my views, my thoughts, so please respect them. I am all for gay marriage. Everyone is entitled to spending their lives together regardless of race, and those that want to spend their lives together want to spend it in an arrangement called a marriage. There are many reasons for wanting to be in a marriage, everyone has their own. I feel that homosexuals aka gays should have the same rights as heterosexuals in a marriage. They are spending their lives together, doing just about everything that a heterosexual couple would do. They may not have kids, but they sure can raise them, they can love them, just like anyone else. So since the gay couples are doing all this, they need to be on the same insurance as well. Be able to be the next of kin if one of them should fall ill and be hospitalised, do you see where I am going with this? When it comes to sex, so much emphasis is placed on what people do. And for obvious reason. But what about what people say? Particularly for long-distance lovers, words become an important device for expressing themselves and connecting sexually. While men must focus on maintaining good penile health so that any visual materials they send aren’t alarming, and so that they will be able to perform once the lover is nearby, they should equally attend to their verbal abilities so they can please partners in the present with a tailored sex story. Now, anyone can tell a true sex story, but not everyone can tell a truly thrilling one. Below, men can find tips for telling a tale that stokes a lover’s passion. And, while this is certainly desired in the case of long-distance lovers, it can also be of benefit to those near and dear, spicing things up in the bedroom. Any man can tell a story about what he likes, and about what other women he’s been with have liked, but tailoring a story to a particular lover’s preferences and fantasies will make all the difference for her. So some explicit pre-conversation will be very helpful. Does she have any kinks or fetishes? What positions does she love? Does she like to be in control, to relinquish control or a combination of the two? What kind of foreplay really gets her going? Where are her hot spots, inside and out? Once a man has the details, he can use them wisely throughout his story. He should be careful not to turn the story into a formulaic bullet-point list of her desires. Intersperse aspects of what she likes with what the story-teller craves – having made sure that she is comfortable with what he likes. Learning what she doesn’t like is just as important here. Telling a great sex story requires consistency and detail – imagine the way bodies are positioned throughout, and make reasonable transitions to other positions. Were her hands tied behind her back? If she’s going to use her hands on one’s member in the next scene, they need to be untied, for example. Breaking consistency can break the magic of a steamy tale. The best sex story is realistic. If a man writes or says that the second he enters a woman, she climaxes, that’s not likely to titillate her because it’s not likely to happen in real life. Don’t write about crazy positions that her flexibility or one’s own strength would not facilitate. While it may seem like no big deal to portray ideals and wild fantasies, this could convey to her that a man wants or expects things she can’t deliver, and that’s not a sexy thought.
I know there are a lot of people out there, that want to follow the bible and they claim that being gay is a sin and all of that. That’s fine for them, they can believe anything they want. I think religion should be kept out of it. The two should have nothing to do with one another. We were put on this earth to be happy and prosper, if it means loving someone of the same sex, so be it. Seriously who are you to tell someone how to live their life, will you be sitting in their home watching their every move? NO of course not, so get off your homophobic trip and let them be. I strongly believe this because I have a few friends that are gay, and my sister is gay. And I will always stand up for her, and equality for all people. If you don’t agree with what I say that’s fine, I’m not here to debate about it, because I will win lol. NO seriously I’m just here to share my views/thoughts on the topic, and that’s my two cents on this topic
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Great post and thank you for trying to talk some sense into people! I truly appreciate you! Also, thank you for providing such pleasing type for your comments!
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Me
I, too, believe that marriage should be available to everyone. Rather than working to keep marriage only for heterosexuals, I think our energy would be better spent re-teaching the values and morals of marriage…then we may have a more manageable divorce rate! I’m part of the problem…I married and divorced in my 20s because I was ignorant to what it all meant. As a society, wouldn’t we prefer to have stable marriages (no matter what gender) rather than unstable ones that are all heterosexual?
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